Alex is Sprintlaw’s co-founder and principal lawyer. Alex previously worked at a top-tier firm as a lawyer specialising in technology and media contracts, and founded a digital agency which he sold in 2015.
Negotiation is one of those business skills that sounds simple until you’re in the moment.
You might be negotiating a supplier contract, a lease, a partnership deal, a founder split, or the scope and price for a new customer project. And while a good conversation can get you 80% of the way there, the final 20% (the “what exactly are we agreeing to?” part) is where many startups and small businesses get burned.
This is why having clear principles of negotiation matters. They help you approach deals calmly, protect your commercial position, and keep relationships intact (which is often critical when you’re building a reputation in a small market).
Below, we’ll walk through practical negotiation principles you can actually use in your day-to-day business in Australia, plus how to turn a “handshake deal” into something legally workable.
What Are The Principles Of Negotiation (And Why Do They Matter For Small Business)?
At a practical level, the principles of negotiation are the key ideas that guide how you prepare, communicate and make trade-offs to reach an agreement.
For startups and small businesses, negotiation isn’t just about “getting a better price”. It’s often about:
- keeping cash flow stable (payment terms, deposits, milestones)
- reducing risk (warranties, liability, termination rights)
- protecting your intellectual property and confidential information
- building long-term relationships you can grow with
- avoiding misunderstandings that turn into disputes
A strong negotiation process also makes it easier to capture the deal correctly in writing. For example, if you’re negotiating a service engagement, you’ll usually want the final terms reflected in a proper Service Agreement (rather than scattered across emails, DMs and phone calls).
One more thing: negotiation is not just a “sales” function. It’s risk management. Even if you’re a tiny team, every negotiation you do is shaping your legal exposure and your business operations.
Principle 1: Prepare Like It’s A Deal, Not A Chat
Many founders go into negotiations thinking they’ll “work it out on the call”. That can work when the stakes are low. But when the deal affects revenue, operations, ownership, or your ability to deliver, you’ll want to prepare more intentionally.
Know Your Goal (And Your Non-Negotiables)
Before you jump into the meeting, write down:
- Your ideal outcome (what you’d love to walk away with)
- Your acceptable outcome (what still works for your business)
- Your walk-away points (what makes this deal unsafe or unworkable)
Your non-negotiables usually come from legal and operational reality. For example:
- You can’t agree to an unrealistic delivery timeline if it will put you in breach.
- You may need a deposit because the project requires upfront costs.
- You may need a limitation of liability because one mistake could otherwise bankrupt a small business.
Understand The Other Side’s Incentives
A core negotiation principle is this: people don’t “give” concessions, they trade them.
If you can work out what the other party values (speed, certainty, flexibility, exclusivity, risk reduction), you can propose trades that get you what you need without simply discounting your price.
Have Your Paperwork Baseline Ready
Negotiations go smoother when you’re not drafting from scratch in the final hour. Even a basic template or standard terms can provide a starting point that protects you.
If you sell online or take bookings through a website, having Website Terms and Conditions in place can also reduce the amount you need to negotiate on each deal, because some rules are already set.
Principle 2: Focus On Interests, Not Positions
One of the most useful principles of negotiation is separating positions from interests.
- A position is what someone says they want: “We need a 20% discount.”
- An interest is why they want it: “We have strict budget limits” or “We’re not sure you can deliver the outcome.”
When you negotiate at the “position” level, you often get stuck. When you negotiate at the “interest” level, you can create options.
Examples You Can Use In Your Startup
- If a client wants a discount: you might trade a lower price for a smaller scope, fewer revisions, a longer timeline, or upfront payment.
- If a supplier wants a longer contract term: you might agree, but only if quality standards and lead times are clearly set (and there are termination rights if things go wrong).
- If a partner wants “flexibility”: that might actually mean they want control. That’s a signal you should clarify decision-making, deadlocks and exit rights in a Shareholders Agreement.
This principle is also how you keep negotiations collaborative rather than adversarial. You can say, “Help me understand what you’re trying to achieve here,” without sounding confrontational.
Principle 3: Trade Concessions, Don’t Give Them Away
If you remember one negotiation rule as a small business owner, make it this: every concession should buy you something.
Small businesses often feel pressure to “just agree” to keep a deal alive. But repeated one-way concessions are a common path to underpricing, scope creep, and stressful projects.
Common Concessions You Should Treat Carefully
- Price reductions (discounts, waived fees)
- Payment terms (longer time to pay, pay-on-completion)
- Scope changes (extra deliverables, extra revisions)
- Risk allocation (broad indemnities, unlimited liability)
- Exclusivity (you can’t work with their competitors)
- IP ownership (who owns what you create)
Practical “Trades” That Often Work
- “We can do that price if payment is upfront / split into milestones.”
- “We can include that extra deliverable if we extend the timeline by two weeks.”
- “We can agree to exclusivity for 3 months, but not 12 months.”
- “We can increase our service levels, but we’ll need a minimum monthly spend.”
Once you’ve agreed on a trade, make sure it’s captured clearly in writing. You’d be surprised how many disputes come from a negotiation where both sides believe they agreed to different “extras”.
Principle 4: Document The Deal Properly (Because The Law Cares About The Details)
In Australia, some verbal agreements can be legally enforceable in certain circumstances. But in a business context, relying on a verbal deal is risky because it can be difficult to prove what was agreed, when, and by whom - and some types of deals may need to be in writing to be enforceable.
A practical principle of negotiation is to treat documentation as part of the negotiation itself. The “deal” isn’t finished when everyone says yes on a call. It’s finished when the terms are accurately captured and executed.
Confirm The Key Commercial Points In Writing
After a call, send a short written summary (email is fine) confirming:
- scope / deliverables
- price and GST treatment
- payment schedule and invoice timing
- timeframes and milestones
- what happens if either party needs to end the arrangement
- any agreed limitations (e.g. number of revisions)
This reduces the risk of misunderstandings and also makes the next step (formal contract drafting) much easier.
Use The Right Agreement For The Relationship
Different negotiations need different legal documents. As a general guide:
- Customer work: a customer contract or Service Agreement (or terms and conditions) that match how you actually deliver the work.
- Bringing on a co-founder or investor: a Shareholders Agreement to deal with ownership, decision-making, exits and disputes.
- Running a company: a Company Constitution can set the basic governance rules that often sit behind shareholder arrangements.
- Hiring staff: an Employment Contract can clarify expectations, confidentiality, IP, and termination terms.
It’s also worth remembering that “standard templates” from the internet don’t reflect your commercial reality. The more you negotiate bespoke terms (like milestone payments, unique deliverables, or complex risk allocations), the more you need your contract to match that detail.
Don’t Let The Contract Undercut The Negotiation
One common issue is when you negotiate a deal in principle, then the other party sends a contract that quietly changes the commercial bargain.
Examples include:
- payment terms that are less favourable than what you discussed
- extra warranties you didn’t agree to
- automatic renewal or long lock-in periods
- one-sided termination rights
- ownership of IP that wasn’t part of the conversation
This is why it’s important to review the written terms carefully, and to treat contract review as a normal part of negotiation rather than an awkward afterthought.
Principle 5: Negotiate With Risk In Mind (Not Just Price)
Startups and small businesses sometimes fixate on the headline number: “What’s the price?” But a deal can look profitable and still be risky if the terms are unbalanced.
A strong set of principles of negotiation includes understanding your risk exposure and actively managing it.
Key Legal Risk Areas To Watch
- Scope creep: vague deliverables can lead to endless “small” requests that eat your margin.
- Late payment: long payment terms can strain cash flow (especially if you have payroll or supplier costs).
- Liability: being on the hook for indirect losses, lost profits, or broad indemnities can be disproportionate to a small contract value.
- Termination: if the other side can terminate immediately, you may be left with unpaid work or stranded inventory.
- IP and confidentiality: you may be giving away ownership of your background tools, templates or know-how without realising it.
Use Clear Processes To Reduce Disputes
Often, disputes happen less because someone acted badly, and more because the contract didn’t match how the work was actually done.
For example, if you provide services, your agreement should clearly cover variations, approvals, and timelines. If you sell goods, your terms should align with your returns and warranty processes and reflect your obligations under Australian Consumer Law (including consumer guarantees where they apply).
If your business collects personal information (for example, email lists, customer profiles, or online orders), your negotiation position should also reflect your privacy obligations, and you may need a properly tailored Privacy Policy.
Key Takeaways
- The principles of negotiation help you protect your cash flow, manage legal risk and build better long-term business relationships.
- Preparation matters: know your ideal outcome, your walk-away points, and what the other side values before you start negotiating.
- Negotiate on interests (the “why”), not just positions (the “what”), so you can create trade-offs without constantly discounting.
- Concessions should be traded, not given away, especially around price, scope, payment terms, liability and exclusivity.
- Documenting the agreement is part of the deal: a clear written contract helps prevent misunderstandings and can reduce disputes.
- For startups, negotiation isn’t just about the headline number - it’s also about the risk and obligations you’re taking on.
Note: This article is general information only and doesn’t constitute legal advice. If you’d like advice about your specific situation, consider speaking to a lawyer.
If you’d like help negotiating and documenting a deal for your startup or small business, you can reach us at 1800 730 617 or team@sprintlaw.com.au for a free, no-obligations chat.








